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Tip #1 on Being Professional – Courtesy of the Gossip Trio

What gossip looks like, and how it can bounce back to hurt the ones who do it. Don’t gossip: it just doesn’t make anybody look good, and it is NOT a career-helper.

Ring Out the Old. Ring in the New.

What happens when we ditch the negative or outdated parts of our lives? We make room for something new! Sometimes we know exactly what we want, and sometimes we just want to be lighter, more free and relaxed. Either way, something old may need to be given up to somebody else who will enjoy it.

Management #1. We Are All Performance Managers

Management. What do you manage? What is “performance”? How do you improve it? You already know the answers – you do it all the time.

Communication Impossible: Preventing Incomplete Conversations

Did you ever see the TV show “Restaurant Impossible”? An hour of interesting communication that saves a restaurant and sometimes saves a family too. But my favorite moment is at the very end, when the show is over, and some guy – while they are turning off the final credits – says “That’s done!” He has […]

That Difficult Client Talk – Part IV.  Completion

Reggie started with a serious performance problem in his department. He said his staff was “under-performing”, and he was insistent that I find out what the problem was and “fix it”. So I did. The problem was Reggie. He was a technical whiz, but not a very good manager. Here’s what I mean: He was […]

Super-vision: It All Depends on Communication

We pay attention to our goals, other people, and the environment. But having a great life needs more than attention: it takes communication.

Why We Don’t Put Deadlines into Our Requests  

Is it pushy to ask for what you want? Not if you’re pleasant about it. In fact, you might be doing them a service.

The Hard Work of Making Good Requests: Part I

Help people give you what you really want by making complete requests that use all 6 “journalist questions”.

The Power of Promising: Listener + Do + Due 

How to get yourself to Do something you don’t want to Do? Add a Listener and a Due date. Here’s how.