Super-vision: It All Depends on Communication

We pay attention to our goals, other people, and the environment. But having a great life needs more than attention: it takes communication.

Create Space in an Overwhelmed Life: A Recipe

Sometimes we run down so slowly that we don’t notice when it’s time to off-load some of the things that are piling up around us. Here’s a recipe that worked for a couple people I know. Myself included.

The Problem with People: Hidden Agendas

When you just aren’t “connecting” with someone, do you know what badge you could be wearing – and what badge might be best for the other person too?

The Problem with People

You know those name-badges people wear at conferences? I’m thinking people should wear them to state clearly what they are – and are not –committed to in life. It would save so much wasted time and confusion. Did you ever have a conversation with someone who said they wanted your help , only to discover that […]

Do As I Say! (or, Why We Don’t Get What We Want)

People mostly do what you ask. So think about what you really want before you make a request.

Where Accountability Comes From – How to Support People in Honoring Their Word

Here’s how to help other people learn to keep their word with you. Please do it! It’s a service to everyone in their lives, not just you.

Cynicism and Resistance to Change – What Works?

Sometimes cynicism is a symptom of a problem from the past. It’s worth fixing both the problem and the symptom.

A Recipe for Little Changes – Organizational and Personal

Five steps to change the way things will be done – in the office and at home – by reducing resistance from others and including their best ideas.

Why We Don’t Put Deadlines into Our Requests  

Is it pushy to ask for what you want? Not if you’re pleasant about it. In fact, you might be doing them a service.

The Hard Work of Making Good Requests: Part II 

The first rule for getting what you want is to Pay Attention to spelling out exactly what you want. Then make a request for it.